You don’t need to be attracted, you just need to go on a date.
Attraction will grow as you get to know him.
Don’t you know bodies change, so why base things on his they look.
Just don’t think so much.
You’ll get used to them.
Once you know them, you’ll know they are very sweet, and will always be honest with you.
It really doesn’t matter what they look like, how they hold themselves, how they dress.
Yes, others might not find them attractive, but you don’t mind, your really nice.
You aren’t one of those that judge someone on their looks or how much they earn or even if they have a job, you are just so caring.
We all have to go through that.
Married people think the only way to happiness is being married, so they just chose a guy to go with a girl – they aren’t trying to offend you.
You shouldn’t feel so bad about it. They are trying their best.
Sometimes you need to go through bad dates to find the right one. You never know.
Well, I am sick and tired of this. I am tired of not feeling attractive or desirable. I am tired of being set up with nebbish and sad guys, with the expectation that I will just ignore that fact about them. I am tired of being told by people that I am attractive and desirable, and there just aren’t great guys out there. I am tired of being told by people that this is just how it is.
I WANT TO BE ATTRACTED TO A GUY IF I AM DATING HIM. I WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY, “NO, I DON’T WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM BECAUSE I DON’T FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE”. Why should I have to give that up?Why should I not want to feel attraction to a person I’m touching or who is touching me? Why does it feel like if I want to be with another person, I just have to accept any person regardless of my feelings and desires?