So I’ve been pretty bad about writing daily. So here are the ones from the past week or so.
Today is my last day in the US – for an unknown amount of time. Today starts my newest journey. A journey, where for the first time, I will be joining a companion, a partner. A journey, where instead of moving to a place for the place or a program, I am moving for a person.
The past week has had a number of ups and downs. It was quite stressful actually. I was a bit stir crazy from being in my parents house, although at the same time, I felt bad about that, as I don’t know when I will be living at their house again, and definitely not alone.
M and I were starting to plan and get things organized for when I arrive. In this planning we have realized how we plan differently, how we organize differently, how the “essentials” of home are different. Again we have to do all of this from a time difference. This stage is new for both of us and for both of us we have extreme changes – new jobs, new homes, new stage in our relationship.
It has also been the week of saying goodbyes. Goodbye to people who have helped make my NY stint more manageable. Friends I did not expect to make. Relationships I did not have before I got here. And for some like S, it was saying our usual goodbye – although it did still feel different this time around. Something feels more permanent. Something feels different.
I am trying to trust in all of this that I am going to be able to find a job. That our home will be able to be made. That settling in and planning our wedding will go smoothly. That I will be able to a good partner and learn what it means to be in partnership.
So here I am, the same day I left to London 11 years ago – starting off on my journey to London once again, just this year I have a week stop over in Israel. Goodbye time in the US. It was not always easy or fun or where I wanted to be. But I can see, I wouldn’t be who I am or doing what I am doing if I didn’t have to come here.